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The Grief Cycle and how it plays out in your divorce We don’t just experience grief when people die. Grief shows up for any loss – and even if divorce is right for your future, it’s totally valid to grieve the loss of your marriage. Even when divorce is your idea, you...
Divorce: You decide your self-worth You decide your self-worth. Yes you do. Often we forget this. I forget this sometimes. Most of the time I remember, but I have my triggers – it’s one trigger actually, if I’m honest. She’s called mum. I love her of...
Two reasons why you find it difficult to leave an abusive MarriageLast time on the blog we looked at co-dependency – a toxic relationship pattern in which one partner’s needs are completely neglected in favour of the other. We can often be in these patterns without...
Co-dependency and divorceDo you want out of a co-dependent marriage?Divorce is always a huge life event, with the potential to de-rail even the most stable and serene of us. That potential is even greater when it comes to divorcing a high conflict personality. It’s...
Am I in a high conflict divorce? Am I in a high conflict divorce? Might sound like a strange question right? It's understandable that you might feel that way but you'd be wrong. Am I in a high conflict divorce? is not just a good question to ask yourself, it's a...
How Do I tell my husband I want a divorce? How do I tell my husband I want a divorce? This is one of the most commonly asked questions by ladies who are leaving. Sometimes, telling your husband that you want a divorce can you come out in an argument. It falls out of...
When Compromise in your Marriage Isn't An Option When compromise in your Marriage isn't an option, what do you do? Firstly, stay calm. It doesn't mean you're headed for the Divorce Court. Marriage is all about compromise isn't it? But what happens when compromise just...
Divorce and the 5 Facts Divorce and the 5 Facts. Any idea what I'm talking about? Well if you're considering divorce in England and Wales, you should. You may be more familiar with the concepts of the 'grounds for divorce' right? Yes? You're thinking adultery,...
