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\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Happy New Year! New year, new start. Time to get your divorce done.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I\u2019m excited to share that on Saturday 18th January I\u2019m running Get Divorce Ready Live<\/a> in London, for the first time ever. In this blog, I explain why I\u2019ve created this event and how it will change things for you this year.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The media will have you believe that today is #DivorceMonday. Divorce Monday is the first Monday after the New Year when allegedly divorce lawyers are swamped with applications from unhappy people! It\u2019s not true of course (divorce applications happen all year round, including on Christmas Day!) but it makes for some free PR for lawyers and divorce coaches like me \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Back to reality. It\u2019s the first full working week of the year and Twelfth Night. The festivities are over and moods may well be sombre today. I get it. I\u2019m not a fan of January myself. Its cold, dark and my holiday to Vietnam in March feels like eons away! Motivation is lacking!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n GDRL is a one day, focussed event to get your divorce ON. This isn\u2019t a \u2018bums on seats, pack out the room\u2019 sort of day. It\u2019s for a maximum of 25 participants. It\u2019s practical and interactive. There will be five experts, including myself, available all day to share their knowledge and answer your specific questions. We have conflict, pension, wealth and communication professionals joining us, as well as a session from me coaching you through how to put together your own individualised divorce plan.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Any gaps you have in what to do next, or what to do first, or how to handle x, y, z \u2013 they will all be filled by the end of the day. And you get lunch too. Plus you get a new network of other fantastic women ready to make 2020 their year. It\u2019s basically rocket fuel for your divorce<\/strong>. Can you think of a more efficient way to get your divorce on track?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you\u2019re lacking oomph and feeling the January blues Divorce Ready Live<\/a> will get you fired up. You\u2019ll be in the company of like-minded ladies who are experiencing the same thoughts and feelings as you. You\u2019ll be inspired. By the end of the day, you’ll know that you are not alone and that you can do this. You\u2019ll be supported to create a personalised divorce plan so you know exactly what steps you need to take to move things on for you.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Divorce isn\u2019t as complex legally (in the majority of cases) as people think. It\u2019s the people in the process that create complexity. Understanding how the process works, the structure and having the ability to communicate it well will make all the difference. Having these tools at your fingertips builds confidence and resilience – two key characteristics that you need to develop to move you through the divorce process. And you\u2019ll come away with an arsenal of communication techniques to keep things moving as you work with your solicitor and respond to your ex.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n When you\u2019re going through divorce, you have so many questions. Get Divorce Ready Live<\/a> will enable you to get those questions answered, and you\u2019ll get the answers to questions you haven\u2019t even thought of yet! How powerful is that? Our guest speakers will be answering questions live at the event to support you to move your divorce forward.\u00a0No more reading between the lines figuring out what applies to you \u2013 get your answers!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Get Divorce Ready is my online programme that creates community as well as builds knowledge.\u00a0 When ladies have invested in that programme, they\u2019ve committed to changing how they feel about themselves, their divorce and what it does and doesn’t say about them as a woman, mother, sister and daughter.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Imagine all that self-awareness and support in one room! I\u2019m running this live event to bring ladies like you together because together we are stronger. If you choose, you can create connections and accountability buddies to support you through. I know that the ladies from the very first round of Get Divorce Ready are still supporting each other in their post divorce lives.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Investing in yourself can be scary. There\u2019s always something or someone else to spend the money on, right? I get it.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cI really want to spend money on divorce\u201d<\/p>\n \u2026said no one ever. No one does. Not you. Not the lady next door.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Yes, there is always something else to spend your money on. I bet you can think of at least five things right now can\u2019t you? Does that mean you shouldn\u2019t come? No.<\/p>\n There will never be a right time, better time or more appropriate time. If you\u2019re certain you want to get your divorce done this year, this event is your most practical way to leap forward. And, if you\u2019re considering but not certain\u2026 Get Divorce Ready Live is the cheapest way to get real answers and explore your options.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The cost of an Early Bird ticket to Get Divorce Ready Live is \u00a3197 for a full day at the stunning Allbright Members Club<\/a> (only invited men are able to enter, so it\u2019s a very safe space) including lunch and refreshments. From 11th January the price rises to \u00a3247.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n That\u2019s less than you\u2019ll pay for an hour with a solicitor. It\u2019s less than you\u2019ll pay for a session with me.\u00a0And you get five experts in the room – this is a bigger bargain than you\u2019ll see on any of the high streets this month. Sometimes to save money you need to invest money. It really is okay to do that, and you really are worth it.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Not sure? Ask yourself, \u201cWhat\u2019s really stopping me?\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n It\u2019s not money that holds us back, usually. When we really want something we find a way, or we justify it to ourselves as being the right thing because of a million creative reasons\u2026 yes we\u2019ve all done that, including me.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The real roots of resistance often lie in fear or lack of trust. Fear that it won\u2019t be for you – you won\u2019t take action on the information you\u2019ve been given or fear that you\u2019ll feel alone or stupid. It might be that you don\u2019t trust me, or yourself. Whatever it is, be honest with yourself about it – then you can make a better informed decision about whether Get Divorce Ready Live is really for you – or not. It\u2019s not for everyone.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Get Divorce Ready Live is not for you if you want absolute privacy. It\u2019s a small, intimate event of a maximum 25 guests, so will be a very safe space to ask questions, but if you need or prefer 1:1 then I offer that separately.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The event isn\u2019t for you if your nisi has been granted and you\u2019ve already reached a financial agreement that has been drafted and submitted to court and you are just waiting for it to be sealed. If that\u2019s you – congratulations!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Get Divorce Ready Live<\/a> isn\u2019t suitable for you if you don\u2019t want to take action. You will get the most out of the event if you know that things need to change \u2013 even if you\u2019re not quite certain how, yet. The answers you get on the day will help you decide. But as spaces are limited, I want to ensure they go to the women who are committed to themselves.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you\u2019re unsure (for whatever reason) whether Get Divorce Ready Live<\/a> is for you or not, drop me an email and let\u2019s chat. I promise it won\u2019t be a hard sell. With tickets limited to 25, I want the ladies in the room to absolutely be the right ladies, and, if that\u2019s not you this time, I\u2019ll tell you, and if I can support you in some other way, I will.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n You can email me here<\/a> to book a chat.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I hope to see you later this month! Book your space here<\/a>.<\/p>\n Emma Heptonstall,<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0the Divorce Alchemist is author of the Amazon best selling book\u00a0How to be a Lady Who Leaves, the Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready<\/strong><\/a>. A former lawyer, Emma is a family mediator and founder of Get Divorce Ready the online self-study and group programmes. Emma has been featured on BBC Radio, The Telegraph, the iPaper and in Marie Claire Magazine. To find out more visit\u00a0www.emmaheptonstall.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Get Divorce Ready Live January 2020: Is it for you? \u00a0 Happy New Year! New year, new start. Time to get your divorce done. I\u2019m excited to share that on Saturday 18th January I\u2019m running Get Divorce Ready Live in London, for the first time ever. In this blog, I explain why I\u2019ve created […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":13605,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":" \u00a0<\/strong><\/p> Happy New Year! New year, new start. Time to get your divorce done.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> I\u2019m excited to share that on Saturday 18th January I\u2019m running Get Divorce Ready Live<\/a> in London, for the first time ever. In this blog, I explain why I\u2019ve created this event and how it will change things for you this year.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> The media will have you believe that today is #DivorceMonday. Divorce Monday is the first Monday after the New Year when allegedly divorce lawyers are swamped with applications from unhappy people! It\u2019s not true of course (divorce applications happen all year round, including on Christmas Day!) but it makes for some free PR for lawyers and divorce coaches like me ;)<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Back to reality. It\u2019s the first full working week of the year and Twelfth Night. The festivities are over and moods may well be sombre today. I get it. I\u2019m not a fan of January myself. Its cold, dark and my holiday to Vietnam in March feels like eons away! Motivation is lacking!<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> GDRL is a one day, focussed event to get your divorce ON. This isn\u2019t a \u2018bums on seats, pack out the room\u2019 sort of day. It\u2019s for a maximum of 25 participants. It\u2019s practical and interactive. There will be five experts, including myself, available all day to share their knowledge and answer your specific questions. We have conflict, pension, wealth and communication professionals joining us, as well as a session from me coaching you through how to put together your own individualised divorce plan.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Any gaps you have in what to do next, or what to do first, or how to handle x, y, z \u2013 they will all be filled by the end of the day. And you get lunch too. Plus you get a new network of other fantastic women ready to make 2020 their year. It\u2019s basically rocket fuel for your divorce<\/strong>. Can you think of a more efficient way to get your divorce on track?<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> If you\u2019re lacking oomph and feeling the January blues Divorce Ready Live<\/a> will get you fired up. You\u2019ll be in the company of like-minded ladies who are experiencing the same thoughts and feelings as you. You\u2019ll be inspired. By the end of the day, you'll know that you are not alone and that you can do this. You\u2019ll be supported to create a personalised divorce plan so you know exactly what steps you need to take to move things on for you.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Divorce isn\u2019t as complex legally (in the majority of cases) as people think. It\u2019s the people in the process that create complexity. Understanding how the process works, the structure and having the ability to communicate it well will make all the difference. Having these tools at your fingertips builds confidence and resilience - two key characteristics that you need to develop to move you through the divorce process. And you\u2019ll come away with an arsenal of communication techniques to keep things moving as you work with your solicitor and respond to your ex.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> When you\u2019re going through divorce, you have so many questions. Get Divorce Ready Live<\/a> will enable you to get those questions answered, and you\u2019ll get the answers to questions you haven\u2019t even thought of yet! How powerful is that? Our guest speakers will be answering questions live at the event to support you to move your divorce forward.\u00a0No more reading between the lines figuring out what applies to you \u2013 get your answers!<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Get Divorce Ready is my online programme that creates community as well as builds knowledge.\u00a0 When ladies have invested in that programme, they\u2019ve committed to changing how they feel about themselves, their divorce and what it does and doesn't say about them as a woman, mother, sister and daughter.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Imagine all that self-awareness and support in one room! I\u2019m running this live event to bring ladies like you together because together we are stronger. If you choose, you can create connections and accountability buddies to support you through. I know that the ladies from the very first round of Get Divorce Ready are still supporting each other in their post divorce lives.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Investing in yourself can be scary. There\u2019s always something or someone else to spend the money on, right? I get it.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> \u201cI really want to spend money on divorce\u201d<\/p> \u2026said no one ever. No one does. Not you. Not the lady next door.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Yes, there is always something else to spend your money on. I bet you can think of at least five things right now can\u2019t you? Does that mean you shouldn\u2019t come? No.<\/p> There will never be a right time, better time or more appropriate time. If you\u2019re certain you want to get your divorce done this year, this event is your most practical way to leap forward. And, if you\u2019re considering but not certain\u2026 Get Divorce Ready Live is the cheapest way to get real answers and explore your options.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> The cost of a ticket to Get Divorce Ready Live is \u00a3247 for a full day at the stunning Allbright Members Club<\/a> (only invited men are able to enter, so it\u2019s a very safe space) including lunch and refreshments.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> That\u2019s less than you\u2019ll pay for an hour with a solicitor. It\u2019s less than you\u2019ll pay for a session with me.\u00a0And you get five experts in the room - this is a bigger bargain than you\u2019ll see on any of the high streets this month. Sometimes to save money you need to invest money. It really is okay to do that, and you really are worth it.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Not sure? Ask yourself, \u201cWhat\u2019s really stopping me?\u201d<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> It\u2019s not money that holds us back, usually. When we really want something we find a way, or we justify it to ourselves as being the right thing because of a million creative reasons\u2026 yes we\u2019ve all done that, including me.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> The real roots of resistance often lie in fear or lack of trust. Fear that it won\u2019t be for you - you won\u2019t take action on the information you\u2019ve been given or fear that you\u2019ll feel alone or stupid. It might be that you don\u2019t trust me, or yourself. Whatever it is, be honest with yourself about it - then you can make a better informed decision about whether Get Divorce Ready Live is really for you - or not. It\u2019s not for everyone.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Get Divorce Ready Live is not for you if you want absolute privacy. It\u2019s a small, intimate event of a maximum 25 guests, so will be a very safe space to ask questions, but if you need or prefer 1:1 then I offer that separately.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> The event isn\u2019t for you if your nisi has been granted and you\u2019ve already reached a financial agreement that has been drafted and submitted to court and you are just waiting for it to be sealed. If that\u2019s you - congratulations!<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Get Divorce Ready Live<\/a> isn\u2019t suitable for you if you don\u2019t want to take action. You will get the most out of the event if you know that things need to change \u2013 even if you\u2019re not quite certain how, yet. The answers you get on the day will help you decide. But as spaces are limited, I want to ensure they go to the women who are committed to themselves.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> If you\u2019re unsure (for whatever reason) whether Get Divorce Ready Live<\/a> is for you or not, drop me an email and let\u2019s chat. I promise it won\u2019t be a hard sell. With tickets limited to 25, I want the ladies in the room to absolutely be the right ladies, and, if that\u2019s not you this time, I\u2019ll tell you, and if I can support you in some other way, I will.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> You can email me here<\/a> to book a chat.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> I hope to see you later this month! Book your space here<\/a>.<\/p> Emma Heptonstall,<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0the Divorce Alchemist is author of the Amazon best selling book\u00a0How to be a Lady Who Leaves, the Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready<\/strong><\/a>. A former lawyer, Emma is a family mediator and founder of Get Divorce Ready the online self-study and group programmes. Emma has been featured on BBC Radio, The Telegraph, the iPaper and in Marie Claire Magazine. 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<\/span>Get Divorce Ready Live – The motivation you need<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>Get Divorce Ready Live – The tools to get your divorce done<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>Get Divorce Ready Live – Your questions answered<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>Get Divorce Ready Live \u2013 creating community<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>Get Divorce Ready Live – Investing in yourself to save money<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>What\u2019s really stopping you?<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>Who is Get Divorce Ready Live not for?<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>If you\u2019re not sure – ask!<\/span><\/h2>\n
Get Divorce Ready Live January 2020: Is it for you?<\/h1>
Get Divorce Ready Live \u2013 what is it?<\/h2>
Get Divorce Ready Live - The motivation you need<\/h2>
Get Divorce Ready Live - The tools to get your divorce done<\/h2>
Get Divorce Ready Live - Your questions answered<\/h2>
Get Divorce Ready Live \u2013 creating community<\/h2>
Get Divorce Ready Live - Investing in yourself to save money<\/h2>
What\u2019s really stopping you?<\/h2>
Who is Get Divorce Ready Live not for?<\/h2>
If you\u2019re not sure - ask!<\/h2>