{"id":16253,"date":"2021-06-20T10:41:38","date_gmt":"2021-06-20T09:41:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/?p=16253"},"modified":"2021-07-02T13:24:34","modified_gmt":"2021-07-02T12:24:34","slug":"is-your-soon-to-be-ex-hiding-money-in-your-high-net-worth-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/is-your-soon-to-be-ex-hiding-money-in-your-high-net-worth-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Your Soon-To-Be-Ex Hiding Money In Your High Net Worth Divorce?\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 class=\"p1\">Is Your Soon-To-Be-Ex Hiding Money In Your High Net Worth Divorce?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h1>\n<p class=\"p1\">If you\u2019re in a high net worth marriage, one things\u2019s for sure. The finances will be complicated. And often the power games go up a notch too. It\u2019s important to have your wits about you to ensure you aren\u2019t being swindled out of a fair settlement. This is especially true if you weren\u2019t the main wealth generator and didn\u2019t have as close an eye on the finances.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Do you suspect that your soon-to-be-ex is hiding money? Are they disposing of assets? In this blog we\u2019ll look at what to do, and what <i>not<\/i> to do.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">But first, we need to understand how they might be trying to manipulate their financial disclosure. They may fail to disclose certain assets, undervalue them, or they may try to dispose of them so you can\u2019t have a claim on them. Let\u2019s take each of these in turn.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"failure_to_disclose_hiding_money\"><\/span>Failure to disclose (hiding money)<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">In this scenario you suspect your soon-to-be-ex has assets<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>&#8211; whether they be savings, stocks, shares, capital investments, pensions, high value goods or other property \u2013 that they are simply not revealing to you or the court. They are hiding money so you don\u2019t get a share of it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"undervaluing_assets\"><\/span>Undervaluing assets<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">Perhaps your soon-to-be-ex has disclosed their financial assets \u2013 but you suspect they have understated how much they are worth. This is especially likely to apply to business interests. Ultimately, both a failure to disclose assets and a deliberate attempt to undervalue them constitute a contempt of court and could result in a prison sentence.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"disposing_of_assets\"><\/span>Disposing of assets<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">A third scenario is that your soon-to-be-ex is disposing of assets to place them outside the reach of your financial claim. If you suspect this is likely to happen you can apply for a freezing injunction.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">If you suspect your soon-to-be-ex is hiding money using any of these techniques, it\u2019s important to take action \u2013 and fast.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Here are some important dos and don\u2019ts:<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"do_gather_evidence_together\"><\/span>Do: Gather evidence together<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">Gut instincts can be useful to get a sense of whether something seems above board or not. But, understandably, the court does not take gut instinct, or unsubstantiated suspicions, into account. So make sure you have legal access to as much financial paperwork as possible.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Think about business as well as personal assets. If you are involved in joint business ventures, or you are a director of any business, make sure you get hold of the latest accounts. Use an independent financial adviser to help you understand the figures and their implications.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"do_tell_your_solicitor\"><\/span>Do: Tell your solicitor<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">Inform your legal team as soon as you suspect your soon-to-be-ex is hiding money, or is likely to. It\u2019s important that you instruct solicitors who are experienced in the complexities of high net worth cases. They will be able to tell you what steps to take to protect yourself. Your solicitor will be able to apply for an injunction under <span class=\"s1\">s37 Matrimonial Causes Act 1975 if they can build a case that disposing of assets is likely. They may also be able to apply for a search order to discover hidden assets.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"do_get_professional_support\"><\/span>Do: Get professional support<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">Your legal team may well have expertise in asset tracing and dealing with cases in which marital assets are hidden, devalued or disposed of. If you need additional support it\u2019s worth hiring a professional asset tracer.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Asset tracers are experts both in the legal means of tracking down hidden assets and in negotiating to get the best outcome for you. They will use a combination of forensic accounting, publicly accessible records, and private investigation to legally uncover hidden money.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\"> I sometimes advise this is done prior to instigating legal proceedings. Some clients have been able to inform themselves of hidden wealth before their spouse is aware that divorce is contemplated. It means you can fully appraise your solicitor from the get-go. Tracing should be done by professionals who work within the law and current case law precedents. Failing to do this legally can have devastating consequences for your settlement. Asset tracing isn&#8217;t necessary or proportionate for everyone. The company I recommend will give you an initial consultation without charge to assess whether such activity is worthwhile in your particular case.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Finding previously unknown assets can change the face of your divorce. You will be in a stronger position. Your legal team may be able to negotiate a fairer settlement outside of court. Or, if you do need a court order, the court will be able to rule based on full information.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Now let\u2019s look at the don\u2019ts\u2026<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"dont_hide_anything_yourself\"><\/span>Don\u2019t: Hide anything yourself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">It can be tempting to try to squirrel away assets for yourself, especially if you think your soon-to-be-ex isn\u2019t playing fair. But don\u2019t. Divorce requires full financial disclosure and anything less than that is considered contempt of court. You could end up with a financial penalty or prison sentence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Focus your energy instead, on getting what you want and need. Get a specialist team you trust around you \u2013 that includes emotional and strategic support as well as financial and legal expertise.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"dont_go_rogue_detective\"><\/span>Don\u2019t: Go rogue detective!<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">I always tell clients they need to know their numbers before they agree to anything. And if you think your soon-to-be-ex is hiding money it can be hard to get to those numbers. Definitely be forthright in getting access to the financial records you are entitled to see. Definitely get experts on the case who can help you uncover and understand the full financial picture.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">But don\u2019t be tempted to turn PI yourself. Hacking into your ex-partner\u2019s email or phone is illegal, as is breaking into their filing systems. The professionals will ensure any evidence they get of your soon-to-be-ex\u2019s finances is admissible in court. Your own investigations might leave you open to criminal sanctions yourself. So step back and leave it to the asset tracers.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"dont_make_unsubstantiated_accusations\"><\/span>Don\u2019t: Make unsubstantiated accusations<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">Don\u2019t let your ego get in the driving seat when it comes to your divorce. If you\u2019re hurt or angry you might want to cause as much trouble for your soon-to-be-ex as possible. I get that. But it\u2019s not worth it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">When it comes down to it, your divorce is a legal process. There\u2019s no place for emotions. It just ratchets up the time, money, and energy cost of the whole process. And even if you have the means to cover the escalating legal fees, do you really want to stay embroiled in a bitter fight for years?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">And, of course, the court does not look kindly on misleading claims. You may have to pay costs if the court considers you have made unsubstantiated claims against your spouse.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"what_if_the_assets_have_already_gone\"><\/span>What if the assets have already gone? <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">It\u2019s important to act as quickly as possible if you suspect assets are being disposed of. But what if the deed has already been done? Don\u2019t panic \u2013 there is still legal provision to support you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Again, it\u2019s important to work with a specialist solicitor who understands high net worth divorce cases. They may advise you to apply to the court for a Section 37 Avoidance of Disposition Order. If you can demonstrate that the asset was disposed of to ensure you couldn\u2019t claim on it (when you had a legal right to), the order may be granted. Your financial settlement will then be decided as if the asset was still in place.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Alternatively, your legal team may be able to seek \u2018add back\u2019. If you can demonstrate that your ex-spouse wantonly and recklessly spent funds (for example if they went on extravagant shopping sprees that were not typical during your marriage), you may be able to argue that the funds are \u2018added back\u2019 into the pot when it comes to determining your financial settlement.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"need_to_get_a_game_plan_in_place\"><\/span>Need to get a game plan in place?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">If you\u2019re in a high net worth divorce and you suspect your soon-to-be-ex is hiding money, get support now. Getting the right legal team in place is crucial. Getting into the right headspace is crucial. Staying in the driving seat is crucial. I can help you with all of that.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I offer a range of private consultation and coaching options, from 1:1 strategy days to extended support for six months or more. Just <a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/contact\/\"><span class=\"s2\">book in a call<\/span><\/a> to see how I can support you.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"about_emma\"><\/span>About Emma<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/about-me-emma-heptonstall\/\"><b>Emma Heptonstall,<\/b><\/a><\/span>\u00a0the Divorce Alchemist is the author of the Amazon best selling book\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/How-Be-Lady-Who-Leaves\/dp\/1999631501\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>How to be a Lady Who Leaves, the Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready<\/b><\/span><\/a>. A former lawyer, Emma is a family mediator and founder of Get Divorce Ready the online self-study and group programmes. Emma has been featured on BBC Radio, The Telegraph, the iPaper and in Marie Claire Magazine. Emma is also the host of\u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/gb\/podcast\/the-six-minute-divorce-podcast-with-emma-heptonstall\/id1547792197\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>The Six Minute Divorce Podcast<\/b><\/span><\/a>. To find out more visit\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>www.emmaheptonstall.com<\/b><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is Your Soon-To-Be-Ex Hiding Money In Your High Net Worth Divorce?\u00a0 If you\u2019re in a high net worth marriage, one things\u2019s for sure. The finances will be complicated. And often the power games go up a notch too. 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