{"id":19836,"date":"2025-10-22T21:44:10","date_gmt":"2025-10-22T20:44:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/?p=19836"},"modified":"2025-10-27T16:45:27","modified_gmt":"2025-10-27T16:45:27","slug":"the-presumption-of-contact-in-family-court-2025","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/the-presumption-of-contact-in-family-court-2025\/","title":{"rendered":"The Presumption of Contact in Family Court 2025"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 ez-toc-wrap-center counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #064239;color:#064239\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #064239;color:#064239\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/the-presumption-of-contact-in-family-court-2025\/#parental_involvement\">Parental involvement<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/the-presumption-of-contact-in-family-court-2025\/#putting_child_safety_first\">Putting child safety first<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/the-presumption-of-contact-in-family-court-2025\/#challenging_the_%e2%80%9cone_size_fits_all%e2%80%9d_approach\">Challenging the \u201cone size fits all\u201d approach<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/the-presumption-of-contact-in-family-court-2025\/#the_starting_point_is_shifting\">The starting point is shifting<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/the-presumption-of-contact-in-family-court-2025\/#i\">\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/the-presumption-of-contact-in-family-court-2025\/#the_law_hasnt_changed_yet_but_the_signal_has\">The law hasn\u2019t changed yet but the signal has<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/the-presumption-of-contact-in-family-court-2025\/#what_this_means_for_contact_arrangements\">What this means for contact arrangements<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\nThe presumption of contact is being repealed. If you\u2019re a parent considering separation or already living post-divorce, you will likely have heard about contact arrangements, the role of the family court in deciding how much a child spends with each parent, and what happens if there are allegations of abuse.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A major change is now on the horizon: in England and Wales, the long\u00adstanding legal presumption that it\u2019s always in the <i>child\u2019s best interests<\/i> to have <b>involvement<\/b> with both parents is being removed.<\/p>\n<h2>The Presumption of Contact<\/h2>\n<p>Since 2020, the Harm Panel has being looking at the issue of <a href=\"https:\/\/assets.publishing.service.gov.uk\/media\/68f5f5c206e6515f7914c7e3\/Review_of_the_Presumption_of_Parental_Involvement_Final_Report_.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Presumption of Parental Involvement<\/a> and it&#8217;s final report was published on 22nd October 2025. The report found what was not in doubt in my mind as a former family court legal adviser, mediator and practising divorce coach &#8211; children are being ordered to have direct contact with an abusive parent, even when further harm was not only possible but likely.<\/p>\n<p>The Human Rights Act, the belief that children should have a relationship with both parents, a lack of court time and resources, a lack of understanding about the nuances of abuse in all it&#8217;s forms has led to a &#8216;pro-contact&#8217; culture in the family court.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s step back for a moment, before we look at this in more detail to remember that when parents do co-parent well, when abuse is not an issue, children of separated parents can thrive, be happy and well adjusted. Parental involvement of both parents in these circumstances is shown by the research to be good for children.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes this adjustment takes time. That&#8217;s normal. Grief, anger sadness frustration with the other parent can play their part and with time and support, for many families, issues resolve themselves. This repeal of the presumption isn&#8217;t going to impact you. But what if your situation is abusive and your partner coercive and controlling?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">For parents who have experienced domestic abuse, controlling behaviour or coercion, this reform could be life changing for them and their children. It means the starting point will no longer automatically favour \u201cboth-parent involvement\u201d but will instead prioritise <b>child safety<\/b> and welfare.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">In this blog I\u2019ll walk you through:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\">what the presumption of parental involvement has been;<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">why the change matters;<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">how this affects child arrangements and contact orders;<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">what you should know and do.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\">I\u2019ll also include a practical FAQ section at the end to help you get clarity on common questions.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"parental_involvement\"><\/span><b>Parental involvement<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p1\">Under section 1 of the Children Act 1989 (as amended by the Children and Families Act 2014) there has been what\u2019s known as the \u201cpresumption of parental involvement\u201d &#8211; you probably know it as &#8216;contact&#8217;.\u00a0 In essence it meant that, unless evidence showed otherwise, the court must presume that <b>involvement of a parent<\/b> in a child\u2019s life will further that child\u2019s welfare.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A few key things to note:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\">The \u201cinvolvement\u201d doesn\u2019t automatically mean equal time or shared living arrangements. It covers contact or arrangements of many kinds. How much time children spend with each parent can be decided between you or by a court if you cannot agree.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">If a parent can <i>only<\/i> be involved in their child&#8217;s life in a way that puts the child at risk, the presumption does <i>not<\/i> apply in the first place. This means that the court will need to consider all the evidence before it makes a decision. The Harm Panel found evidence that even in cases where the presumption was rebutted (that parental involvement was not the starting point), direct contact was frequently being ordered anyway.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">The welfare of the child remains the <i>paramount<\/i> consideration: that principle will remain unchanged.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">In practice, however, the presumption often reinforced what is sometimes called a &#8220;pro-contact culture&#8221; \u2014 i.e., a strong default towards facilitating contact with both parents, even in cases where risk factors (including domestic or parental abuse) were present.<\/p>\n<p>Following the deaths of Jack and Paul Throssell 11 years ago at the hands of their father, their mother Claire has been campaigning for this change. Speaking on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/articles\/cz91ng13gqko\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">BBC Woman&#8217;s Hour <\/a>she said that the changes &#8220;would save so many children&#8217;s lives&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><b>Why this reform matters \u2013 especially for you<\/b><\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"putting_child_safety_first\"><\/span><b>Putting child safety first<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p1\">The recent announcement by the UK Government confirms that they will legislate to <b>repeal<\/b> the presumption of parental involvement when parliamentary time allows.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">This matters because:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\">When there are concerns about abuse, controlling behaviour or neglect \u2013 the old presumption risked placing children back into harmful contact simply because the law favoured involvement.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">The reform sends a clear message: <i>being a parent is a privilege, not a right<\/i>,\u00a0 (Claire Throssel) and the child\u2019s right to safety trumps automatic involvement.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">For survivors of domestic abuse, it offers the possibility of a fairer starting point in the family court system. As one campaigner noted: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/uk-news\/2025\/oct\/21\/family-law-shift-hailed-as-victory-for-children-facing-domestic-abuse\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">children\u2019s welfare will always be the priority and parents who undermine their welfare cannot use the system to continue to perpetrate harm.\u201d<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"challenging_the_%e2%80%9cone_size_fits_all%e2%80%9d_approach\"><\/span><b>Challenging the \u201cone size fits all\u201d approach<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p1\">The official Review of the presumption (October 2025) found that the presumption was <i>not<\/i> routinely referenced by judges in decisions \u2013 but in practice many decisions still followed the \u201cno stone unturned\u201d approach promoting involvement. This led to situations where even in cases with indicators of high risk (convictions, protection orders, significant abuse), courts sometimes <i>still<\/i> ordered unsupervised direct involvement.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly but unsurprisingly, there was little evidence of long-term welfare outcomes for children having minimal or no involvement with a parent. Further work needs to be done of this but the instances of &#8216;no contact&#8217; are rare.\u00a0 But the Review raised concern: \u201cwhere a parent posed a risk\u2026 involvement with that parent might not further the child\u2019s welfare.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The review noted that the availability of data to research was disappointingly low but with the implementation of the <a href=\"https:\/\/transparencyproject.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Transparency Project <\/a>and a greater willingness to understand the impact of harmful parenting on children and young people, the data will be available in future to fully assess the outcomes of the diffeent types of court ordered outcomes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">So this reform is not a small tweak \u2013 it seeks to rebalance how courts approach child arrangements and contact, giving greater weight to individual child welfare rather than assuming that involvement always promotes the welfare of the child.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><b>What the change means in practice for child arrangements &amp; contact<\/b><\/h2>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"the_starting_point_is_shifting\"><\/span><b>The starting point is shifting<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li>Previously: court begins with the assumption that unless shown otherwise, involvement of both parents will further child welfare.<\/li>\n<li>Going forward: court will assess from the outset whether involvement <i>does<\/i> further welfare, without automatically starting from the default of \u201cyes\u201d.<\/li>\n<li>Good news: this means that if you raise concerns about risk, abuse or controlling behaviour, you are less likely to be battling an automatic presumption of involvement.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b style=\"color: #333333; font-size: 18px;\">Risk &amp; harm modelling<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The Review highlighted that courts must robustly consider harm and risk of harm \u2013 including the impact of domestic abuse, emotional, psychological harm and the child\u2019s voice.<\/li>\n<li>The change emphasises that contact arrangements must be genuinely safe \u2013 supervised or indirect contact may be appropriate instead of automatic unsupervised contact with a parent.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b style=\"color: #333333; font-size: 18px;\">Your evidence matters<\/b><\/p>\n<ol class=\"ol1\">\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">If you are dealing with abuse, coercive control or risk to a child, you will need to ensure that factual evidence, safeguarding concerns, protective orders or social work involvement are clearly presented. This has always been the case. The shift means that you are now on stronger ground to argue that the child\u2019s welfare cannot assume involvement with the other parent. It&#8217;s not always easy. The culture of some organisations in my experience is still poor and it&#8217;s a post code lottery. Some clients have had exceptional support and others have faced dismissive professionals who talk them into &#8216;co-parenting&#8217; because in reality, they don&#8217;t know how to handle the abusive parent themselves. The Family Courts, Cafcass,\u00a0 Social Services Schools asked for report all need to do better. Fear doesnt just keep victims stuck, it keeps the professionals stuck too.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"the_law_hasnt_changed_yet_but_the_signal_has\"><\/span><b>The law hasn\u2019t changed yet but the signal has<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>At time of writing the presumption remains in statute (Children Act 1989) but the Government has committed to repeal it as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gov.uk\/government\/news\/government-action-to-protect-children-from-abusive-parents\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">parliamentary time allows<\/a>.\u00a0Courts will continue to apply the welfare checklist under S.1(3) Children Act 1989 and make decisions on child arrangements accordingly. The presumption does <i>not<\/i> automatically vanish overnight in every case. Remember, collate your evidence and find people who will listen.<\/p>\n<p>A client of mine after first experience with Early Help said &#8220;I feel like I&#8217;m going mad. She suggested I buy books on co-parenting and read books to our daughter about mum&#8217;s house and daddy&#8217;s house, despite me telling her that our 6 year-old is spouting vitriol about me stealing daddy&#8217;s house and all his money&#8221; Fortunately the next Early Help worker totally understood. The lesson &#8211; keep going even if you aren&#8217;t understood at first.<\/p>\n<p>Until repeal, you may still face the legacy culture of the presumption. But you should use this announcement as leverage for change\u2014courts and practitioners will increasingly recognise the shift?<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"what_this_means_for_contact_arrangements\"><\/span><b>What this means for contact arrangements<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>The court may order a range of child arrangements: living (residence) orders, spending time\/contact orders, or neither.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>With the presumption removed, the court is more likely to focus on <i>whether<\/i> contact is safe and beneficial \u2013 rather than <i>assuming<\/i> it should happen unless shown otherwise.<\/li>\n<li>You may see increased focus on forms of contact such as <b>supervised contact<\/b>, <b>supported contact<\/b>, or <b>indirect contact<\/b> (letters, digital communication) when risk concerns exist, though how this will be funded remains to be seen.<\/li>\n<li>For parents with no evidence of risk, the traditional benefits of involvement may still apply. The key shift is the mindset of the system: one size no longer fits all.<\/li>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><b>Conclusion<\/b><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">If you need tailored guidance, coaching or help preparing for court\/arrangements in light of these changes \u2014 I\u2019m here to support. This reform may be happening at system level, but the change becomes real for women and children when it is part of your lived experience. You\u2019re not alone. You <i>can<\/i> navigate this. And you <i>will<\/i> unlock a future that honours your child\u2019s welfare and your own voice.<\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><b>You\u2019re not alone<\/b> \u2013 thousands of women have faced similar battles. This reform recognises the system needs to better protect children and survivors.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><b>Child welfare is always THE priority<\/b> \u2013 and rightly so. As you navigate decisions, keep your children\u2019s safety, feelings, development and emotional welfare central.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><b>Your voice matters<\/b> \u2013 this new landscape gives you a stronger foundation to speak out about risks, harmful behaviours and the truth of the situation.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><b>Be prepared<\/b> \u2013 document, gather evidence, seek legal advice, liaise with your coach\/support network.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><b>Don\u2019t accept the status-quo if it\u2019s unsafe<\/b> \u2013 if your gut says that contact with the other parent is risky for your child or for you, the law is evolving in your favour.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><b>Support your children in understanding change<\/b> \u2013 Transparent, age-appropriate discussion with your children about what\u2019s happening can reduce fear and confusion.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 class=\"p3\">\u00a0<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_accordion open_toggle_text_color=&#8221;#064239&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;FAQ&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; toggle_text_color=&#8221;#064239&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Q1. What will change with the presumption of parental involvement?&#8221; open=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A: The Government plans to remove the legal presumption that a parent\u2019s involvement furthers a child\u2019s welfare. Courts will no longer start by assuming contact with both parents is best; they will assess what is safe and in the child\u2019s interests in each case.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Q2. Does this mean my child won\u2019t see the other parent?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A: Not necessarily. Safe, beneficial contact can still happen. The difference is the starting point: the court will scrutinise risk and welfare first, rather than assuming contact is appropriate.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Q3. Has the reform become law yet in England and Wales?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A: Not yet (October 2025). The presumption still exists in statute. The Government has committed to repeal it when parliamentary time allows, and practice is shifting towards child safety as the priority.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Q4. What if there\u2019s domestic abuse or coercive control?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A: Risk should now be given greater weight. Evidence of abuse (e.g., police logs, protective orders, reports from social care\/schools) can support decisions for supervised, indirect, or no contact where necessary to protect the child.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Q5. Will this reform fix family court problems for survivors?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A: It\u2019s a major step, not a complete solution. Training, culture change, and better data are still needed. The direction of travel is toward child safety and trauma-informed decisions.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Q6. What practical steps can I take now?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A: Seek advice from a solicitor experienced in domestic abuse. Keep a clear record of incidents, safeguarding concerns, and the child\u2019s wishes\/feelings (age-appropriate). Build a child-centred case with your support network and stay updated on local court practice.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][\/et_pb_accordion][et_pb_code _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<script type=\"application\/ld+json\"><!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->{<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->  \"@context\": \"https:\/\/schema.org\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->  \"@type\": \"FAQPage\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->  \"mainEntity\": [<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->    {<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"@type\": \"Question\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"name\": \"What will change with the presumption of parental involvement?\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"acceptedAnswer\": {<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->        \"@type\": \"Answer\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->        \"text\": \"The Government plans to remove the legal presumption that a parent\u2019s involvement furthers a child\u2019s welfare. 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The Government has committed to repeal it when parliamentary time allows, and practice is shifting towards child safety as the priority.\"<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      }<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->    },<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->    {<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"@type\": \"Question\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"name\": \"What if there\u2019s domestic abuse or coercive control?\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"acceptedAnswer\": {<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->        \"@type\": \"Answer\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->        \"text\": \"Risk should now be given greater weight. Evidence of abuse (e.g., police logs, protective orders, reports from social care\/schools) can support decisions for supervised, indirect, or no contact where necessary to protect the child.\"<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      }<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->    },<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->    {<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"@type\": \"Question\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"name\": \"Will this reform fix family court problems for survivors?\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"acceptedAnswer\": {<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->        \"@type\": \"Answer\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->        \"text\": \"It\u2019s a major step, not a complete solution. Training, culture change, and better data are still needed. The direction of travel is toward child safety and trauma-informed decisions.\"<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      }<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->    },<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->    {<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"@type\": \"Question\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"name\": \"What practical steps can I take now?\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      \"acceptedAnswer\": {<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->        \"@type\": \"Answer\",<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->        \"text\": \"Seek advice from a solicitor experienced in domestic abuse. Keep a clear record of incidents, safeguarding concerns, and the child\u2019s wishes\/feelings (age-appropriate). Build a child-centred case with your support network and stay updated on local court practice.\"<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->      }<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->    }<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->  ]<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->}<!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] --><\/script><!-- [et_pb_line_break_holder] -->[\/et_pb_code][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;About Emma&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\">About Emma<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/about-me-emma-heptonstall\/\" data-abc=\"true\"><b>Emma Heptonstall,<\/b><\/a><\/span>\u00a0the Divorce Alchemist is the author of the Amazon best-selling book\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/How-Be-Lady-Who-Leaves\/dp\/1999631501\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-abc=\"true\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>How to be a Lady Who Leaves, the Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready<\/b><\/span><\/a>. 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If you\u2019re a parent considering separation or already living post-divorce, you will likely have heard about contact arrangements, the role of the family court in deciding how much a child spends with each parent, and what happens if there are allegations of abuse. A major change is now [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":19842,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<p class=\"p1\">The presumption of contact is being repealed. If you\u2019re a parent considering separation or already living post-divorce, you will likely have heard about contact arrangements, the role of the family court in deciding how much a child spends with each parent, and what happens if there are allegations of abuse. A major change is now on the horizon: in England and Wales, the long\u00adstanding legal presumption that it\u2019s always in the <i>child\u2019s best interests<\/i> to have <b>involvement<\/b> with both parents is being removed.<\/p><p>Since 2020, the Harm Panel has being looking at the issue of <a href=\"https:\/\/assets.publishing.service.gov.uk\/media\/68f5f5c206e6515f7914c7e3\/Review_of_the_Presumption_of_Parental_Involvement_Final_Report_.pdf\">The Presumption of Parental Involvement<\/a> and it's final report was published on 22nd October 2025. The report found what was not in doubt in my mind as a former family court legal adviser, mediator and practising divorce coach - children are being ordered to have direct contact with an abusive parent, even when further harm was not only possible but likely.<\/p><p>The Human Rights Act, the belief that children should have a relationship with both parents, a lack of court time and resources, a lack of understanding about the nuances of abuse in all it's forms has led to a 'pro-contact' culture in the family court.<\/p><p>Let's step back for a moment, before we look at this in more detail to remember that when parents do co-parent well, when abuse is not an issue, children of separated parents can thrive, be happy and well adjusted. Parental involvement of both parents in these circumstances is shown by the research to be good for children. Sometimes this adjustment takes time. That's normal. Grief, anger sadness frustration with the other parent can play their part and with time and support, for many families, issues resolve themselves. This repeal of the presumption isn't going to impact you. But what if your situation is abusive and your partner coercive and controlling?[ez-toc]<\/p><p class=\"p1\">For parents who have experienced domestic abuse, controlling behaviour or coercion, this reform could be life changing for them and their children. It means the starting point will no longer automatically favour \u201cboth-parent involvement\u201d but will instead prioritise <b>child safety<\/b> and welfare.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">In this blog I\u2019ll walk you through:<\/p><ul class=\"ul1\"><li class=\"li1\">what the presumption of parental involvement has been;<\/li><li class=\"li1\">why the change matters;<\/li><li class=\"li1\">how this affects child arrangements and contact orders;<\/li><li class=\"li1\">what you should know and do.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"p1\">I\u2019ll also include a practical FAQ section at the end to help you get clarity on common questions.<\/p><h2 class=\"p3\"><b>What exactly is the \u201cpresumption of parental involvement\u201d?<\/b><\/h2><p class=\"p1\">Under section 1 of the Children Act 1989 (as amended by the Children and Families Act 2014) there has been what\u2019s known as the \u201cpresumption of parental involvement\u201d. In essence it meant that, unless evidence showed otherwise, the court must presume that <b>involvement of a parent<\/b> in a child\u2019s life will further that child\u2019s welfare.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">A few key things to note:<\/p><ul class=\"ul1\"><li class=\"li1\">The \u201cinvolvement\u201d doesn\u2019t automatically mean equal time or shared living arrangements. It covers contact or arrangements of many kinds. How much time children spend with each parent can be decided between you or by a court if you cannot agree.<\/li><li class=\"li1\">If a parent can <i>only<\/i> be involved in their child's life in a way that puts the child at risk, the presumption does <i>not<\/i> apply in the first place. This means that the court will need to consider all the evidence before it makes a decision. The Harm Panel found evidence that even in cases where the presumption was rebutted (that parental involvement was not the starting point), direct contact was frequently being ordered anyway.<\/li><li class=\"li1\">The welfare of the child remains the <i>paramount<\/i> consideration: that principle will remain unchanged.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"p1\">In practice, however, the presumption often reinforced what is sometimes called a \"pro-contact culture\" \u2014 i.e., a strong default towards facilitating contact with both parents, even in cases where risk factors (including domestic or parental abuse) were present.<\/p><p>Following the deaths of Jack and Paul Throssell 11 years ago at the hands of their father, their mother Claire has been campaigning for this change. Speaking on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/articles\/cz91ng13gqko\">BBC Woman's Hour <\/a>she said that the changes \"would save so many children's lives\".<\/p><h2 class=\"p3\"><b>Why this reform matters \u2013 especially for you<\/b><\/h2><h3 class=\"p5\"><b>Putting child safety first<\/b><\/h3><p class=\"p1\">The recent announcement by the UK Government confirms that they will legislate to <b>repeal<\/b> the presumption of parental involvement when parliamentary time allows.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">This matters because:<\/p><ul class=\"ul1\"><li class=\"li1\">When there are concerns about abuse, controlling behaviour or neglect \u2013 the old presumption risked placing children back into harmful contact simply because the law favoured involvement.<\/li><li class=\"li1\">The reform sends a clear message: <i>being a parent is a privilege, not a right<\/i>,\u00a0 (Claire Throssel) and the child\u2019s right to safety trumps automatic involvement.<\/li><li class=\"li1\">For survivors of domestic abuse, it offers the possibility of a fairer starting point in the family court system. As one campaigner noted: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/uk-news\/2025\/oct\/21\/family-law-shift-hailed-as-victory-for-children-facing-domestic-abuse\">children\u2019s welfare will always be the priority and parents who undermine their welfare cannot use the system to continue to perpetrate harm.\u201d<\/a><\/li><\/ul><h3 class=\"p5\"><b>Challenging the \u201cone size fits all\u201d approach<\/b><\/h3><p class=\"p1\">The official Review of the presumption (October 2025) found that the presumption was <i>not<\/i> routinely referenced by judges in decisions \u2013 but in practice many decisions still followed the \u201cno stone unturned\u201d approach promoting involvement. This led to situations where even in cases with indicators of high risk (convictions, protection orders, significant abuse), courts sometimes <i>still<\/i> ordered unsupervised direct involvement.<\/p><p>Sadly but unsurprisingly, there was little evidence of long-term welfare outcomes for children having minimal or no involvement with a parent. Further work needs to be done of this but the instances of 'no contact' are rare.\u00a0 But the Review raised concern: \u201cwhere a parent posed a risk\u2026 involvement with that parent might not further the child\u2019s welfare.\u201d The review noted that the availability of data to research was disappointingly low but with the implementation of the <a href=\"https:\/\/transparencyproject.org.uk\/\">Transparency Project <\/a>and a greater willingness to understand the impact of harmful parenting on children and young people, the data will be available in future to fully assess the outcomes of the diffeent types of court ordered outcomes.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">So this reform is not a small tweak \u2013 it seeks to rebalance how courts approach child arrangements and contact, giving greater weight to individual child welfare rather than assuming that involvement always promotes the welfare of the child.<\/p><h2 class=\"p3\"><b>What the change means in practice for child arrangements & contact<\/b><\/h2><p class=\"p5\"><b>For parents navigating separation\/child arrangements \u2013 here\u2019s what to expect<\/b><\/p><h4><b>The starting point is shifting<\/b><\/h4><ul><li>Previously: court begins with the assumption that unless shown otherwise, involvement of both parents will further child welfare.<\/li><li>Going forward: court will assess from the outset whether involvement <i>does<\/i> further welfare, without automatically starting from the default of \u201cyes\u201d.<\/li><li>Good news: this means that if you raise concerns about risk, abuse or controlling behaviour, you are less likely to be battling an automatic presumption of involvement.<\/li><\/ul><p><b style=\"color: #333333; font-size: 18px;\">Risk & harm modelling<\/b><\/p><ul><li>The Review highlighted that courts must robustly consider harm and risk of harm \u2013 including the impact of domestic abuse, emotional, psychological harm and the child\u2019s voice.<\/li><li>The change emphasises that contact arrangements must be genuinely safe \u2013 supervised or indirect contact may be appropriate instead of automatic unsupervised contact with a parent.<\/li><\/ul><p><b style=\"color: #333333; font-size: 18px;\">Your evidence matters<\/b><\/p><ol class=\"ol1\"><li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\u00a0<\/li><\/ol><p>If you are dealing with abuse, coercive control or risk to a child, you will need to ensure that factual evidence, safeguarding concerns, protective orders or social work involvement are clearly presented. This has always been the case. The shift means that you are now on stronger ground to argue that the child\u2019s welfare cannot assume involvement with the other parent. It's not always easy. The culture of some organisations in my experience is still poor and it's a post code lottery. Some clients have had exceptional support and others have faced dismissive professionals who talk them into 'co-parenting' because in reality, they don't know how to handle the abusive parent themselves. The Family Courts, Cafcass,\u00a0 Social Services Schools asked for report all need to do better. Fear doesnt just keep victims stuck, it keeps the professionals stuck too.<\/p><h4><b>The law hasn\u2019t changed yet but the signal has<\/b><\/h4><p>At time of writing the presumption remains in statute (Children Act 1989) but the Government has committed to repeal it as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gov.uk\/government\/news\/government-action-to-protect-children-from-abusive-parents\">parliamentary time allows<\/a>.\u00a0Courts will continue to apply the welfare checklist under S.1(3) Children Act 1989 and make decisions on child arrangements accordingly. The presumption does <i>not<\/i> automatically vanish overnight in every case. Remember, collate your evidence and find people who will listen.<\/p><p>A client of mine after first experience with Early Help said \"I feel like I'm going mad. She suggested I buy books on co-parenting and read books to our daughter about mum's house and daddy's house, despite me telling her that our 6 year-old is spouting vitriol about me stealing daddy's house and all his money\" Fortunately the next Early Help worker totally understood. The lesson - keep going even if you aren't understood at first.<\/p><p>Until repeal, you may still face the legacy culture of the presumption. But you should use this announcement as leverage for change\u2014courts and practitioners will increasingly recognise the shift?<\/p><h4><b>What this means for contact arrangements<\/b><\/h4><p>The court may order a range of child arrangements: living (residence) orders, spending time\/contact orders, or neither.<\/p><ul><li>With the presumption removed, the court is more likely to focus on <i>whether<\/i> contact is safe and beneficial \u2013 rather than <i>assuming<\/i> it should happen unless shown otherwise.<\/li><li>You may see increased focus on forms of contact such as <b>supervised contact<\/b>, <b>supported contact<\/b>, or <b>indirect contact<\/b> (letters, digital communication) when risk concerns exist, though how this will be funded remains to be seen.<\/li><li>For parents with no evidence of risk, the traditional benefits of involvement may still apply. The key shift is the mindset of the system: one size no longer fits all.<\/li><li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\u00a0<\/li><\/ul><h3 class=\"p3\"><b>Conclusion<\/b><\/h3><p class=\"p1\">If you need tailored guidance, coaching or help preparing for court\/arrangements in light of these changes \u2014 I\u2019m here to support. This reform may be happening at system level, but the change becomes real for women and children when it is part of your lived experience. You\u2019re not alone. You <i>can<\/i> navigate this. And you <i>will<\/i> unlock a future that honours your child\u2019s welfare and your own voice.<\/p><ul class=\"ul1\"><li class=\"li1\"><b>You\u2019re not alone<\/b> \u2013 thousands of women have faced similar battles. This reform recognises the system needs to better protect children and survivors.<\/li><li class=\"li1\"><b>Child welfare is always THE priority<\/b> \u2013 and rightly so. As you navigate decisions, keep your children\u2019s safety, feelings, development and emotional welfare central.<\/li><li class=\"li1\"><b>Your voice matters<\/b> \u2013 this new landscape gives you a stronger foundation to speak out about risks, harmful behaviours and the truth of the situation.<\/li><li class=\"li1\"><b>Be prepared<\/b> \u2013 document, gather evidence, seek legal advice, liaise with your coach\/support network.<\/li><li class=\"li1\"><b>Don\u2019t accept the status-quo if it\u2019s unsafe<\/b> \u2013 if your gut says that contact with the other parent is risky for your child or for you, the law is evolving in your favour.<\/li><li class=\"li1\"><b>Support your children in understanding change<\/b> \u2013 Transparent, age-appropriate discussion with your children about what\u2019s happening can reduce fear and confusion.<\/li><\/ul><h2 class=\"p3\">\u00a0<\/h2><p class=\"p1\">\u00a0<\/p>","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[34,582],"tags":[2776,2777,2778],"class_list":["post-19836","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-children-and-divorce","category-high-conflict-divorce","tag-children-and-family-court","tag-contact-arrangements","tag-domestic-abuse"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Jan-2025-10-Years-Of-The-Divorce-Alchemist-An-inside-look-with-Emma.png?fit=1000%2C516&ssl=1","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6aDhr-59W","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19836","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19836"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19836\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19842"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19836"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19836"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19836"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}