{"id":6120,"date":"2019-07-29T06:36:06","date_gmt":"2019-07-29T05:36:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/?p=6120"},"modified":"2019-07-21T15:36:56","modified_gmt":"2019-07-21T14:36:56","slug":"what-is-financial-remedy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/what-is-financial-remedy\/","title":{"rendered":"What is Financial Remedy?\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; inner_width=&#8221;auto&#8221; inner_max_width=&#8221;1080px&#8221;][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.26.3&#8243; text_text_shadow_horizontal_length=&#8221;text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93&#8243; text_text_shadow_horizontal_length_tablet=&#8221;0px&#8221; text_text_shadow_vertical_length=&#8221;text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93&#8243; text_text_shadow_vertical_length_tablet=&#8221;0px&#8221; 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header_5_text_shadow_blur_strength=&#8221;header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93&#8243; header_5_text_shadow_blur_strength_tablet=&#8221;1px&#8221; header_6_text_shadow_horizontal_length=&#8221;header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93&#8243; header_6_text_shadow_horizontal_length_tablet=&#8221;0px&#8221; header_6_text_shadow_vertical_length=&#8221;header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93&#8243; header_6_text_shadow_vertical_length_tablet=&#8221;0px&#8221; header_6_text_shadow_blur_strength=&#8221;header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93&#8243; header_6_text_shadow_blur_strength_tablet=&#8221;1px&#8221; box_shadow_horizontal_tablet=&#8221;0px&#8221; box_shadow_vertical_tablet=&#8221;0px&#8221; box_shadow_blur_tablet=&#8221;40px&#8221; box_shadow_spread_tablet=&#8221;0px&#8221; z_index_tablet=&#8221;500&#8243;]<\/p>\n<h1 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">What is Financial Remedy?\u00a0<\/span><\/h1>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You know that you need to resolve your finances now that you are getting divorced, but <em>what is Financial Remedy?<\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Financial Remedy is the legal process that splits your assets and makes financial arrangements for you and your children. Heard the term \u2018ancillary relief\u2019? \u2013 that\u2019s what financial remedy used to be called.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Your financial claims against each other end in one of two ways.\u00a0 Following a consent order, where you and your spouse reach your own agreements. If no agreement is reached, after a Financial Remedy Order (in which the court decides).<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"how_to_get_started\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">How to get started<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"family_mediation\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">Family Mediation<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">You must see a mediator if you want to issue Form A\u00a0 unless an exemption applies. (Read more about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/should-i-choose-family-mediation\/\"><span class=\"s2\">mediation and exemption circumstances here<\/span><\/a>). Use mediation to disclose and negotiate with the support of the mediator. If you reach agreement, you only need to complete the first part of Form A. Find out more about financial disclosure in last week&#8217;s blog post <a href=\"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6aDhr-1wQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>How to prepare for financial disclosure<\/em><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"issue_form_a\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">Issue Form A<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">When mediation isn&#8217;t suitable or doesn&#8217;t work, negotiate with the help of solicitors. This can be done through a collaborative process where you have &#8217;round table meetings&#8217; or through traditional means. If this is unsuccessful, issuing Form A is the next step. The current cost to issue is \u00a3255 (July 2019).<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"what_orders_can_the_court_make\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">What orders can the court make? <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Form A lists the type of financial orders the court can make. You should indicate <i>all<\/i> that apply to you. I explain a few of them here:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"orders_about_property\"><\/span>Orders about property<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<h4 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"property_adjustment_orders\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\"><b>Property adjustment orders<\/b> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Refers to the transfer of property ownership from one person to another, usually the family home, though other property assets may be involved<\/span><span class=\"s3\">. There are different types of property adjustment order:<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"an_outright_transfer\"><\/span><span class=\"s4\"><b>An outright transfer<\/b><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">This is the simplest order, transferring ownership to a named party. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">If the property is mortgaged the transfer will either involve redemption of the mortgage (by payment of a lump sum), or for the new legal owner to be subject to a mortgage. <\/span><span class=\"s1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When this happens, the court order should include an undertaking (promise to the court which can be enforced) by the person to whom the property is being transferred, to pay the mortgage and comply with all the terms. There should also be an indemnity to protect\u00a0 the transferring party against future payments.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"transfer_subject_to_charge\"><\/span><span class=\"s4\"><b>Transfer subject to charge<\/b><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">This provides for the transfer of a property subject to the transferring party receiving payment of a financial sum at a future date. The lump sum can be expressed as a fixed amount or as is more common, on the basis of a percentage of the proceeds of the sale.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">Payment is triggered at either a fixed date, or upon the occurrence of certain events. This can include the youngest child of the family attaining the age of 18, or finishing full time secondary education.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"mesher_order\"><\/span><span class=\"s4\"><b>Mesher order<\/b><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">This postpones the sale of the property until certain trigger events relating to children take place. These events can include the youngest child leaving education. The divorcing parties decide their own trigger events. In the meantime the property will continue to be held in the joint names of both parties, rather than being transferred. <\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"martin_order\"><\/span><span class=\"s4\"><b>Martin Order<\/b><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">Similar to a Mesher Order, the Martin Order does not relate to children. It enables one one party to occupy the property until certain trigger events occur, for example remarriage, cohabitation or the desire to leave the property. <\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"transfer_of_tenancy\"><\/span><span class=\"s4\"><b>Transfer of Tenancy<\/b><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">This is an order transferring a tenancy into one party\u2019s name.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"orders_about_money\"><\/span>Orders about money<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"lump_sums\"><\/span><strong>Lump sums<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>The court has power to order the payment of lump sums to one spouse by another. This can be in one or more instalments. Lump sum orders cannot be varied or discharged. Orders by instalment may be varied as to the timing or method of payment only.<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"periodical_payments\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\"><b>Periodical payments<\/b><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">More commonly known as maintenance payments, periodical payments relate most commonly to spousal maintenance. Periodical payments might relevant if you or your soon-to-be-ex-husband gave up work to care for children or other family members. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Spousal maintenance is no longer as popular as it once was with the court. Usually spousal maintenance will be temporary to allow you to retrain or find a better paid job. If you are older, or have a physical or mental health issue you may be awarded spousal maintenance for life &#8211; a life order may be until pension payments begin or until you die.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Orders for periodical payments can be varied up or down and extended by application to the court by either party. However, the order ends upon the death of either party or the remarriage (or entering of a civil partnership) of the recipient.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"child_maintenance\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\"><b>Child Maintenance<\/b><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Child Maintenance that is not agreed cannot be dealt with by the court unless your husband is a high earner earning in excess of the Child Maintenance Service (CMS) maximum. Currently the maximum earnings threshold is \u00a33000 per week. If your soon-to-be-ex-husband earns more than this, you can seek additional child maintenance. This is known as a <em>Topping Up Order<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>If you do not agree child maintenance and your soon-to-be-ex-husband earns less than this, you will need the support of the Child Maintenance Service.<\/p>\n<p>Where you have reached agreement about the payment of maintenance, this can be included in your consent order.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">If you are applying for orders under the Children Act 1981 you would complete the section in Form A. This could be for Top Up or the payment of school fees or additional payments because of child disability.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"orders_about_pensions\"><\/span>Orders about Pensions<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"pension_sharing\"><\/span><strong>Pension Sharing<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Pension sharing involves the legal transfer of pension rights from one spouse to another. This includes both occupational and Additional State Pension but doesn&#8217;t include the Basic State Pension. The extent to which the pension is shared is subject to negotiation or court order. Fees are involved.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"after_form_a_has_been_issued\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">After Form A has been issued<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Once the court has received Form A, both you and your soon-to-be-ex-husband will get a First Directions Appointment notice. This will tell you when the first court hearing is. The notice will also contain directions about the exchange and filing of Form E. Further, the notice contains the dates for the service of your Questionnaire, Chronology, Statement of Issues and Form G (readiness for Financial Dispute Resolution notice). <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Make a note of all the dates you need to comply by. Be prepared and keep on top of the paperwork for each appointment. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">You can, and will be expected to continue to negotiate a settlement with your soon-to-be-ex-husband all the way through proceedings even when you have court hearings pending.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"if_you_have_a_solicitor\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">If you have a solicitor<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you have a solicitor acting for you, they will take care of most of the financial remedy process for you. They will, of course, need your active input. Ensure you give yourself plenty of time to act on any requests or instructions they give you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"if_you_are_self-representing\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">If you are self-representing<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s possible to handle financial remedy without a solicitor if you can\u2019t afford or choose not to instruct one. As I said in my last blog, organisation is key. As is the ability to stay realistic and see that as far as the court is concerned this is simply the application of the law.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Judges have hundreds of cases to deal with. They are there to meet the overriding objectives of \u2018fairness\u2019, avoiding delay and saving costs. They don\u2019t know you personally and won\u2019t get caught up in emotional back stories. It\u2019s not personal &#8211; its just business. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So you need to work with the system you have. And the best way to get a good outcome is to know the strengths and weaknesses of both yours and your ex\u2019s case. That means getting organised, being prepared and staying calm. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"no_solicitor_but_need_help\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">No solicitor but need help?<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I\u2019ve supported lots of self-representing women, as well as those working with solicitors. Is it easy to self-represent? No. But is it doable? Absolutely. One of the most powerful things I do with clients is show them that just because their ex has a lawyer, it doesn\u2019t mean they should give up on their own interests.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Solicitors are all Officers of the Court. They are bound by duties, obligations and codes of conduct. Most solicitors (sadly not all), take this seriously and will treat you with the courtesy and respect you deserve, just as you will them. You don\u2019t need to be intimidated. But my clients tell me that having a trained coach, mediator and former lawyer on their side is invaluable when it comes to getting this done! <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you need help to figuring what you need to do next, or gathering the confidence to do it, with or without a solicitor, get in touch. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Whether it\u2019s through joining my community of empowered ladies all supported by me, or through one to one coaching, I can help you get the future you want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s5\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/contact\/\">Book in a call today<\/a><\/span><span class=\"s4\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"the_divorce_alchemist\"><\/span>The Divorce Alchemist<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/about-me-emma-heptonstall\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Emma Heptonstall,<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0the Divorce Alchemist is author of the Amazon best selling book\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/How-Be-Lady-Who-Leaves\/dp\/1999631501\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>How to be a Lady Who Leaves, the Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready<\/strong><\/a>. A former lawyer, Emma is a practising family mediator and founder of Get Divorce Ready the online self study and group programmes. Emma has been featured on BBC Radio, The Telegraph, the iPaper and in Marie Claire Magazine. To find out more visit\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>www.emmaheptonstall.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_0 et_pb_row_empty\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div> What is Financial Remedy?\u00a0You know that you need to resolve your finances now that you are getting divorced, but what is Financial Remedy? Financial Remedy is the legal process that splits your assets and makes financial arrangements for you and your children. Heard the term \u2018ancillary relief\u2019? \u2013 that\u2019s what financial remedy used to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6216,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<h1 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">What is Financial Remedy?\u00a0<\/span><\/h1><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You know that you need to resolve your finances now that you are getting divorced, but <em>what is Financial Remedy?<\/em> <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Financial Remedy is the legal process of splitting your assets and making financial arrangements for you and your children. Read the term \u2018ancillary relief\u2019 online? \u2013 that\u2019s what financial remedy used to be called.<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Your financial claims against each other end in one of two ways.\u00a0 Following a consent order (in which you and your ex agree how to divide your assets and the financial arrangements for the future) or after a Financial Remedy Order (in which the court decides).<\/span><\/p><h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">How to get started<\/span><\/h2><h3 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Family Mediation<\/span><\/h3><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">You must see a mediator if you want to issue Form A\u00a0 unless an exemption applies. (Read more about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/should-i-choose-family-mediation\/\"><span class=\"s2\">mediation and exemption circumstances here<\/span><\/a>). You will begin to disclose and negotiate with the support of the mediator. If you reach agreement, you only need to complete the first part of Form A and seek a consent order. Find out more about financial disclosure in last week's blog post <a href=\"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6aDhr-1wQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>How to prepare for financial disclosure<\/em><\/a><\/span><\/p><h3 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Issue Form A<\/span><\/h3><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">When mediation isn't suitable or doesn't work, negotiate with the help of solicitors. This can be done through a collaborative process where you have 'round table meetings' or through traditional means. If this is unsuccessful, issuing Form A is the next step. The current cost to issue is \u00a3255 (July 2019).<\/span><\/p><h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">What orders can the court make? <\/span><\/h2><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Form A lists the type of financial orders the court can make. You should indicate <i>all<\/i> that apply to you. I explain a few of them here:<\/span><\/p><h3>Orders about property<\/h3><h4 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Property adjustment orders<\/b> <\/span><\/h4><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Refers to the transfer of property ownership from one person to another, usually the family home, though other property assets may be involved<\/span><span class=\"s3\">. There are different types of property adjustment order:<\/span><\/p><h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s4\"><b>An outright transfer<\/b><\/span><\/h4><p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">This is the simplest order, transferring ownership to a named party. If the property is mortgaged the transfer will either involve redemption of the mortgage (by payment of a lump sum), or for the new legal owner to be subject to the existing mortgage. <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When this is the case, the court order should include an undertaking (promise to the court which can be enforced) by the person to whom the property is being transferred, to pay the mortgage and comply with all the terms. There should also be an indemnity to protect\u00a0 the transferring party against future payments.<\/span><\/span><\/p><h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s4\"><b>Transfer subject to charge<\/b><\/span><\/h4><p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">This provides for the transfer of a property subject to the transferring party receiving payment of a financial sum at a future date. The lump sum can be expressed as a fixed amount or as is more common, on the basis of a percentage of the proceeds of the sale.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">Payment is made (triggered) at either a fixed date or upon the occurrence of certain events, such as the youngest child of the family attaining the age of 18 or finishing full time secondary education.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s4\"><b>Mesher order<\/b><\/span><\/h4><p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">This postpones the sale of the property until certain trigger events relating to children take place - such as the youngest child leaving education. The divorcing parties decide their own trigger events. In the meantime the property will continue to be held in the joint names of both parties, rather than being transferred. <\/span><\/p><h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s4\"><b>Martin Order<\/b><\/span><\/h4><p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">This is similar to a Mesher Order but does not relate to children. It enables one one party to occupy the property until certain trigger events occur, for example remarriage, cohabitation or the desire to leave the property. <\/span><\/p><h4 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s4\"><b>Transfer of Tenancy<\/b><\/span><\/h4><p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">This is an order transferring a tenancy into one party\u2019s name.<\/span><\/p><h3>Orders about money<\/h3><h4><strong>Lump sums<\/strong><\/h4><p>The court has power to order the payment of lump sums to one spouse by another. This can be in one or more instalments. Lump sum orders cannot be varied or discharged. Lump sum orders by instalment may be varied as the the timing of the payment and the way in which it is paid.<\/p><h4 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Periodical payments<\/b><\/span><\/h4><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">More commonly known as maintenance payments, periodical payments relate to most commonly to spousal maintenance. They may be relevant, for example, if you or your soon-to-be-ex-husband gave up work to care for children or other family members. Spousal maintenance is no longer as popular as it once was with the court. Usually spousal maintenance will be temporary to allow you to retrain or find a better paid job. If you are older or have a physical or mental health issue you may be awarded spousal maintenance for life - a life order may be until pension payments begin or until you die.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Orders for periodical payments can be varied up or down and extended by application to the court by either party. However, the order ends upon the death of either party or the remarriage (or entering of a civil partnership) of the recipient.<\/span><\/p><h4 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Child Maintenance<\/b><\/span><\/h4><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">You do not deal with child maintenance on Form A unless your soon-to-be-ex-husband is a high earner and you are asking the court to consider an order for payments above the CMS (Child Maintenance Service) maximum - currently \u00a33000 per week. This is known as a <em>Topping Up Order<\/em>.<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">If you are applying for orders under the Children Act 1981 you would complete the section in Form A. This could be for Top Up or the payment of school fees or additional payments because of child disability.<\/span><\/p><h3>Orders about Pensions<\/h3><h4><strong>Pension Sharing<\/strong><\/h4><p>Pension sharing involves the legal transfer of pension rights from one spouse to another. This includes both occupational pensions and Additional State Pension but doesn't include the Basic State Pension. The extent to which the pension is shared is subject to negotiation. Fees are involved.<\/p><h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">After Form A has been issued<\/span><\/h2><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Once the court has received Form A, both you and your soon-to-be-ex-husband will get a First Directions Appointment notice. This will tell you when the First Appointment at court is. This notice will also contain directions about the exchange and filing of Form E. Further, it contains the dates for the service of your Questionnaire, Chronology, Statement of Issues and Form G (readiness for Financial Dispute Resolution notice). <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">These are all different dates so make a note of when everything is happening. Make sure you are prepared and keep on top of the paperwork for each appointment. <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">You can and will be expected to continue to negotiate a settlement with your soon-to-be-ex-husband all the way through proceedings even when you have court hearings pending.<\/span><\/p><h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">What happens at the First Appointment?<\/span><\/h2><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><em>What is Financial Remedy? <\/em>It's a process of disclosure and court hearings starting with the First Directions Appointment (FDA). At the First Appointment the Judge will expect you to have exchanged Form E, Chronology, Statement of Issues and Questionnaires already. If you have stated on Form G that you\u2019re ready for Financial Dispute Resolution the judge will go ahead with that. <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If not, the judge will look at the paperwork provided and listen to representations about what further information is needed. Based on what they read and hear they will make directions about what should happen next. Take your own notes during the session, although an order will be sent to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The judge might direct either of you to provide outstanding such as property valuations, actuarial reports and pension valuations and mortgage borrowing capacity. A penal notice may be attached if one party has already failed to comply with directions. <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">There will be strict timescales laid down with which you should comply. It\u2019s possible to apply for these to be varied and you should do this if necessary rather than ignore them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The Financial Dispute Resolution Hearing<\/span><\/h2><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you did not declare that you were ready for Financial Dispute Resolution at the First Appointment, it may happens several months after.<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">By the hearing date you will need to have complied with further directions and continued to negotiate. You may even have agreement on some but not all aspects of your case. It is likely proposals and offers will have been made.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h3>Negotiating a settlement<\/h3><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The FDR aims to help you reach a negotiated settlement. You\u2019ll be asked what orders you\u2019d like the court to make. This is in the light of the further information and proposals that have been shared since the First Appointment. The judge at the FDR will give an indication as to the way in which they believe the court will deal with the matter. Note, though, that it won\u2019t be the same judge at the Final Hearing. <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s important that you come to court prepared to compromise. Consider what your financial limits are \u2013 if you dispute a direction on financial (not moral or \u2018fairness\u2019) grounds, make sure you have evidence to back up your point of view. It might be that you can afford mortgage payments in your area but not rent, for example.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If an order by consent is possible, the judge will be happy to make an order or directions with a view to a order being made in the terms agreed (bear in mind there is no going back on these terms even if the order cannot be made that same day).\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The judge cannot make you agree and if you can\u2019t a Final Hearing will be listed with further directions given.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Final Hearing<\/span><\/h2><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The chances of you ending up at a Final Hearing are slim \u2013 only 9% of cases get this far. It\u2019s still possible to negotiate a settlement even after the Final Hearing has been listed right up until the hearing itself. <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">At the Final Hearing the judge may hear evidence from each of you and representations by your solicitor\/barrister if you have them (don\u2019t panic if you do not).<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The judge has to apply the law (s25 MCA 1973) and decide what\u2019s fair based on the evidence they have heard. They have the power to order the sale or transfer of property, the sharing of pensions, the payment of lump sums or periodical payments. They can even decide how to split your possessions! Once you are before a judge you no longer have the right to decide for yourselves.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You will usually get a decision on the day but sometimes judges will reserve judgement in order to consider the case in more detail. If this happens, you\u2019ll have to go back to court to hear the decision at a later date.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you have a solicitor<\/span><\/h2><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you have a solicitor acting for you, they will take care of most of the financial remedy process for you. They will, of course, need your active input. Ensure you give yourself plenty of time to act on any requests or instructions they give you.<\/span><\/p><h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you are self-representing<\/span><\/h2><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s possible to handle financial remedy without a solicitor if you can\u2019t afford or choose not to instruct one. As I said in my last blog, organisation is key. As is the ability to stay realistic and see that as far as the court is concerned this is simply the application of the law.<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Judges have hundreds of cases to deal with. They are there to meet the overriding objectives of \u2018fairness\u2019, avoiding delay and saving costs. They don\u2019t know you personally and won\u2019t get caught up in emotional back stories. It\u2019s not personal - its just business. <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So you need to work with the system you have. And the best way to get a good outcome is to know the strengths and weaknesses of both yours and your ex\u2019s case. That means getting organised, being prepared and staying calm. <\/span><\/p><h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">No solicitor but need help?<\/span><\/h2><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I\u2019ve supported lots of self-representing women, as well as those working with solicitors. Is it easy to self-represent? No. But is it doable? Absolutely. One of the most powerful things I do with clients is show them that just because their ex has a lawyer, it doesn\u2019t mean they should give up on their own interests.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Solicitors are all Officers of the Court. They are bound by duties, obligations and codes of conduct. Most solicitors (sadly not all), take this seriously and will treat you with the courtesy and respect you deserve, just as you will them. You don\u2019t need to be intimidated. But my clients tell me that having a trained coach, mediator and former lawyer on their side is invaluable when it comes to getting this done! <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you need help to figuring what you need to do next, or gathering the confidence to do it, with or without a solicitor, get in touch. <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Whether it\u2019s through joining my community of empowered ladies all supported by me, or through one to one coaching, I can help you get the future you want.<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s5\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/contact\/\">Book in a call today<\/a><\/span><span class=\"s4\">.<\/span><\/p><h3>The Divorce Alchemist<\/h3><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/about-me-emma-heptonstall\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Emma Heptonstall,<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0the Divorce Alchemist is author of the Amazon best selling book\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/How-Be-Lady-Who-Leaves\/dp\/1999631501\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>How to be a Lady Who Leaves, the Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready<\/strong><\/a>. A former lawyer, Emma is a practising family mediator and founder of Get Divorce Ready the online self study and group programmes. Emma has been featured on BBC Radio, The Telegraph, the iPaper and in Marie Claire Magazine. 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