{"id":8163,"date":"2019-09-02T06:30:14","date_gmt":"2019-09-02T05:30:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/?p=8163"},"modified":"2019-09-01T14:52:30","modified_gmt":"2019-09-01T13:52:30","slug":"separation-september-is-here-again-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/separation-september-is-here-again-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Separation September is Here Again!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; inner_width=&#8221;auto&#8221; inner_max_width=&#8221;1080px&#8221;][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;16px&#8221; text_text_shadow_horizontal_length=&#8221;text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93&#8243; text_text_shadow_horizontal_length_tablet=&#8221;0px&#8221; text_text_shadow_vertical_length=&#8221;text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93&#8243; 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Summer is the time to drop the routine and let the fun in. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">But I love September. It signals change, the opportunity for a fresh start. And if you have school children, it hopefully means you get some more time and headspace again as term starts. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you need a day or two to ground yourself and settle into new rhythms, allow yourself that time. You might be straight back to work yourself.\u00a0 When you\u2019re ready, pick up the divorce mantle \u2013 it\u2019s your time to put you and your future first.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"the_back_to_school_challenge\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">The Back To School Challenge! <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">To help you get in the right mindset, next week, 9 September 2019, I\u2019m running the \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/emmaheptonstall.activehosted.com\/f\/14\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span class=\"s2\">Get Divorce Ready Back To School Challenge<\/span><\/a>\u2019 again! I say again because I ran it last September. Yes, <em>Separation September is here again!<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I\u2019m running it a second time for two reasons. It\u2019s here for those of you who didn\u2019t sign up last year because you missed it, or it wasn\u2019t relevant then. In that case, now\u2019s your chance! <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I also know many of you signed up last year and didn\u2019t finish. So I say to you \u2013 here\u2019s your second chance! It only works if you work it! The tools and insights I share in the challenge aren\u2019t just theory \u2013 they are actual, practical steps you can take to get yourself closer to divorce readiness, in just a week. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Now maybe you\u2019re doing great without the support \u2013 and if that\u2019s you, fab! But, if you\u2019re still where you were this time last year or you haven\u2019t done the challenge before, now is the time to make the commitment to yourself to sign up to open every single email (yes, all five) and get the job done!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And did I mention that it\u2019s all FREE?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"so_whats_involved\"><\/span><span class=\"s1\">So, what\u2019s involved? <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">To make the most of the challenge you need to commit to two things:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol class=\"ol1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Opening and reading the email contents each day<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">To set aside around 15-20 minutes each day to complete the exercises I share with you.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s up to you how and when you do the work \u2013 but it\u2019s important you do it. And if you do, you\u2019ll find out much more than you expected about:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Your relationship with yourself (the most important relationship of all!)<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">How to plan for your divorce, and who you need around you<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">How to handle money and financial planning<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">How to navigate divorce when you have children<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">How to plan for successful communication.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You won\u2019t be all set to divorce at the end of the challenge, there\u2019s more to it than five emails I\u2019m afraid! But you will have a fantastic starting point \u2013 you\u2019ll know where you stand, you\u2019ll have a solid grip on some key issues and you\u2019ll have the start of a plan for making your divorce a reality, on your terms. All this can make the divorce process so much smoother, and it means you\u2019re not second-guessing yourself every step of the way because you\u2019ve done the groundwork.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"get_divorce_ready\"><\/span>Get Divorce Ready!<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So, are you itching to Get Divorce Ready? Don\u2019t let another year pass you by. You might be thinking you&#8217;ll wait until January? September is the new January<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\"><span class=\"s4\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/emmaheptonstall.activehosted.com\/f\/14\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span class=\"s2\">Sign up for The Back To School Challenge now!<\/span><\/a> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/about-me-emma-heptonstall\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Emma Heptonstall,<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0the Divorce Alchemist is author of the Amazon best selling book\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/How-Be-Lady-Who-Leaves\/dp\/1999631501\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>How to be a Lady Who Leaves, the Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready<\/strong><\/a>. A former lawyer, Emma is a practising family mediator and founder of Get Divorce Ready the online self study and group programmes. Emma has been featured on BBC Radio, The Telegraph, the iPaper and in Marie Claire Magazine. To find out more visit\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.emmaheptonstall.com\/divorce-coaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>www.emmaheptonstall.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_0 et_pb_row_empty\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div> Separation September is here again!Perhaps it\u2019s just me (I moved house) but this summer seems to have flown by, I can\u2019t believe we\u2019re into autumn already! Separation September is here again! If you gave yourself some time off to chill with the children &#8211; good for you! 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It\u2019s here for those of you who didn\u2019t sign up last year because you missed it, or it wasn\u2019t relevant then. In that case, now\u2019s your chance! <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I also know many of you signed up last year and didn\u2019t finish. So I say to you \u2013 here\u2019s your second chance! It only works if you work it! The tools and insights I share in the challenge aren\u2019t just theory \u2013 they are actual, practical steps you can take to get yourself closer to divorce readiness, in just a week. <\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Now maybe you\u2019re doing great without the support \u2013 and if that\u2019s you, fab! But, if you\u2019re still where you were this time last year or you haven\u2019t done the challenge before, now is the time to make the commitment to yourself to sign up to open every single email (yes, all five) and get the job done!<\/span><\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And did I mention that it\u2019s all FREE?<\/span><\/p><h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So, what\u2019s involved? <\/span><\/h2><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">To make the most of the challenge you need to commit to two things:<\/span><\/p><ol class=\"ol1\"><li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">To open and read the email contents each day<\/span><\/li><li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">To set aside around 15-20 minutes each day to complete the exercises I share with you.<\/span><\/li><\/ol><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s up to you how and when you do the work \u2013 but it\u2019s important you do it. And if you do, you\u2019ll find out much more than you expected about:<\/span><\/p><ul class=\"ul1\"><li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Your relationship with yourself (the most important relationship of all!)<\/span><\/li><li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">How to plan for your divorce, and who you need around you<\/span><\/li><li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">How to handle money and financial planning<\/span><\/li><li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">How to navigate divorce when you have children<\/span><\/li><li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">How to plan for successful communication.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You won\u2019t be all set to divorce at the end of the challenge, there\u2019s more to it than five emails I\u2019m afraid! 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