Everything in One Place
This page is a handy list of absolutely every free and paid resource, 1:1 service, and paid membership that I currently offer.
It’s arranged into categories, including free and paid resources, with the price clearly listed:
- Free Resources
- Paid Products and Resources
- Memberships
- 1:1 Support
Should I Be a Lady Who Leaves Course
Should I Be a Lady Who Leaves Course
The most comprehensive programme for deciding whether to stay or leave your relationship. No more sleepless nights, second-guessing your future. Learn how to make this most important decision with complete confidence, and move forward with ease.
Free Resources
Free Quiz - Are We Really Over?
Find out if your relationship is over in 2 minutes.
Get Divorce Ready™ 3 STEPS TO DIVORCING WITH CLARITY AND CONFIDENCE - free guide
The thought of divorce is scary – I get it.
When you know exactly what you have and what you want and need, you trust yourself and your confidence grows.
When you have trust in yourself you have a voice. When you have a voice, you’re able to advocate for yourself putting yourself in the best position to get your divorce done in the easiest way possible.
In this FREE guide, I will help you understand the 3 steps you need to take in order for you to be able to approach your divorce from a place of calm, clarity and confidence.
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Read my weekly blog
Guidance, blogs and thoughts on the divorce process.
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Listen to the 6-Minute Divorce Podcast
Join my Newsletter List
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Can You Help?
Is this you?
Are you a busy woman with a career or a full-time mum who is constantly thinking about leaving your marriage. You flip-flop between leaving and staying, overthinking everything and you’d just love to be able to make a decision with confidence and clarity one way or the other.
If this is you, I would love to invite you on a 20 – minute call to ask you a few questions! I’m currently working on a new programme and want to ensure it’s the perfect fit for those women in need of this support. As a thank you for your time, I’ll be sending you a £10 Amazon or Coffee Voucher as a thank you.
Paid Products & Resources
My book - How To Be A Lady Who Leaves
How to be a Lady Who Leaves, 3rd edition is a guide book for any woman thinking about or going through divorce in England and Wales. Packed with information, practical hints, tips, extra resources and case studies from ladies just like you going through divorce.
£14.99
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Understanding Divorce - 30 Daily Cards
Revised and fully updated to support the divorce process in England & Wales post April 2022. Working through these cards will give you an overview of the divorce process, the things you need to think about, the actions you and your spouse will be taking and the support to keep going when things feel challenging. You will save time, money and your confidence will increase.
£20.00
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Get Divorce Ready™ Self-Study Course
Deciding to divorce is always a big deal.
Whether it’s a decision you are making for yourself, or it’s been forced upon you.
Join me in this online self-study course and we will work together to create your own tailor-made divorce plan, building your confidence, clarity and resilience so that you can move forward through divorce and into a new life that’s right for you.
You’ll need to commit a one hour each week to review the video content where I will guide you and you’ll need to be prepared to complete “homeplay” actions to work towards your goal.
No more scouring the web for information about divorce. There are workbooks, checklists and bite-sized chunks of information to help you navigate your way through the divorce process. I’ll be with you every step of the way.
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Membership
The Absolute Academy
A private community of women who want to gain control of their divorce and feel better while they do it.
£225/month
Work with Me 1:1
I offer 1-1 support to give you the focus and attention you need to get on top of your divorce. Whether it’s the security of knowing you’ve got me at the other end of the phone when needed, a day together to go through everything and nail your plan, or simply a one-off to work through a thorny issue, I’m here for you.
Clarity Over Coffee
Coaching each week for a minimum of 4 weeks. You purchase a monthly bundle – no long term commitment.
Clarity Over Coffee is a monthly fee of £600. You invest 1 month at a time.
How it will help you:
✅ weekly 30 minute calls recorded over Zoom so you can watch and listen over and over
✅ Voxer messaging access (text and voicemail)
✅ 10 minute pep talk in between each call when you need them.
It’s your time to use as you need. No issue is off limits. This is not like working with a solicitor, where the focus is solely on getting the legal job done (at six minute billable intervals). This is time for you, the person, to get empowered about your divorce, your way.
Will it give you time to slow down and plan? Yes. Will you get a real experience of how working with me will help you? Yes. Will I discount the £600 if you upgrade to another package and pay in full that month? Yes.
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Ask The Alchemist
When you just want to reach out when you need to, pay-as-you-go style, I’ve got you covered for a fixed fee of £350 and 90 minutes of your precious time.
Ask the Alchemist is an in-depth chat with me to get to the heart of an issue in your divorce. It could be anything:
- what that letter from your ex-spouse’s solicitor means, and what you can do
- how to communicate with your ex-spouse for best results
- how to find exactly the right legal and financial team for your divorce
- how to get a handle on your finances so you don’t jeopardise your settlement
- how to figure out what you want and need for your independent future
This is not what you get from a solicitor – with me you can get to the heart of absolutely anything to do with your divorce.
And you’ll leave confident you’re making the right decisions for you and your family.
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Clarity Day
Right now you’re swirling around in the tornado of your divorce.
The conflicting emotions, the ‘what ifs’, the ‘what nexts’, the legal and financial hurdles to navigate.
Divorce is a LOT to manage.
Let’s do it together.
In one day we can untangle the emotions. Separate out the shoulds from the wants and musts. Work out what’s optimal and make a plan for you to get there, as well as equip you with the emotional tools to take care of yourself. We meet at a location convenient to you in safety and privacy. No chance of bumping into Laura from the office or your husband.
Within 48- hours you’ll have your own personalised action plan in your hand, coupled with 1- month’s voice messaging access to me and a 90-minute follow up 1 month after our day together, all included in the investment of £2500.
Need some discreet hand-holding away from your ‘real-life’ to be open and vulnerable?
I see you.
I’m here.
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Book a Call
Not sure what you need? Book a 30-minute consultation with me to get you on the right track.
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Meet Emma, The Divorce Alchemist
Emma Heptonstall is the author of How to be a Lady Who Leaves – The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready and a former lawyer. She is a practing Divorce Coach with a specialism in high conflict diversion. Emma has worked with hundreds of women through their divorce: from making the decision to the Decree Absolute. She knows the legal, emotional, and practical landscape of divorce inside out. And she’s here to support you to make the best emotional and financial decisions for you and your future.
