The Absolute Academy

The private community for women who want to axe the overwhelm and get their divorce done.


Lonely, confusing, terrifying, exhausting.


Divorce can be all of these things. If you go it alone. But relax.
You don’t have to go it alone. The Absolute Academy is here for you.

A private community of women who want to gain control of their divorce and feel better while they do it.

Do you:

  • feel out of your depth?
  • want it to all just go away?
  • struggle to sleep because of your divorce?
  • wish you knew people who really got it?
  • worry you’ll spend thousands and get nowhere?

Would you like to:

  • feel confident?
  • know exactly what to do each step of the way?
  • relax and look forward to the future?
  • connect with others who truly understand?
  • save thousands of pounds?

Take the stress and uncertainty out of your divorce
& protect your bank balance.

Only £225/month

Meet Emma, The Divorce Alchemist

Emma Heptonstall is the author of How to be a Lady Who Leaves - The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready and a former lawyer. She is a practising Divorce Coach with a specialism in high conflict diversion. Emma has worked with hundreds of women through their divorce: from making the decision to the Decree Absolute. She knows the legal, emotional, and practical landscape of divorce inside out. And she's here to support you to make the best emotional and financial decisions for you and your future.

“How you are feeling is a rollercoaster and most of us don’t know how to do this stuff!

Emma does. She gets it. She will get you.”

- Katie -


You don’t have to use a solicitor to divorce. You may not need to use one at all. And if you do instruct a solicitor I’m confident you can use them more effectively than you are now. So you’ll save thousands of pounds.

But it’s not just about the money. When you take charge of your divorce you put the power back in your hands. What would it feel like to make the right decisions for your divorce, backed up with my support and a whole community of women behind you?

Just think what that will do for your confidence.

Are you ready to save money and step into your power?

“Emma has been brilliant. From the moment I realised that my marriage was over, I have been terrified, mainly because I had no idea what to do next or how much it was going to cost me.

Having been a stay at home mum, I didn’t have the safety net of my own income. Not only has Emma saved me a small fortune by avoiding unnecessary solicitor visits, but she has also equipped me with the knowledge I need and the confidence to drive things forward and to ask for what I really want.

Emma does this with patience and good humour, even when you are losing it and you feel like your world is ending. If you are questioning the cost, don’t! She is worth every penny and pays for herself in the money she saves you and the voice of sanity she brings amidst the chaos.

Do yourself a favour and have a chat with Emma.”

- Lucy -

What’s included with your Absolute Academy membership?

Live trainings & exclusive content

Live trainings including Get Divorce Ready ‘live’ which runs twice a year (you can join as many times as you like). Topics range from creating a divorce plan to using Family Mediation, preparing for court and managing communication. You get the opportunity to suggest training topics right for you. Access to the 8 week Get Divorce Ready self-study portal including an additional 5 hours of video trainings and a 95 page workbook to take you right through the divorce process.

Weekly Live Q&A

Weekly live Q&A sessions so you can join, ask the questions you have and learn from the questions the other ladies have – expanding your knowledge and increasing your confidence!

Weekly Zoom Wednesdays from 8:30-10pm. Come and join the chat!

Private Facebook Group

A secret Facebook Group where you can connect and share in a private and safe space without fear of judgement or shame. Get support from other ladies just like you.

Member discount on paid services

Enjoy a member discount on Emma’s other paid services whilst being a Club member. 20% discount on all online or 1:1 programs (excluding Voxer) with Emma Heptonstall, the discount can support you whether you need the self-study or 1:1 coaching.

Do divorce better!

Only £225/month

“Working with Emma has been a hugely positive experience and saved me a stack load of cash – I’m only now instructing a solicitor, as we near the end of our divorce process.

Emma’s so gifted at holding space for the huge emotional rant every time it gets difficult, and then somehow managing to understand where we are both coming from, and helping me to put together my calm, rational response in a way that will be well received by my ex.

I genuinely do not know where I would be without her! And she’s now being hugely supportive as I choose a solicitor and as I navigate the last and predictably tricky stage of my financial negotiations. Can’t recommend her highly enough!”

- Heidi -


Why invest in the Absolute Academy?

There are many reasons to invest: the supportive community, the resources, toolkits and Q&As. But it boils down to two main benefits:

1. You will save money. Most likely the knowledge and skills you get from being in the Absolute Academy will mean you can deploy your solicitor strategically, rather than rely on them for every little thing. This will save you thousands.

2. You’ll develop a confidence that means you’ll navigate not only your divorce on your terms, but the rest of your life too. When you invest time and energy in your divorce, with the right support behind you, you get it done. It’s that simple.

How does it work?

You’ll get access to two private spaces: an online portal full of resources and training to access whenever you wish. You can return to the portal as many times as you like while a member of the academy. And a private, secret Facebook group where you can connect with other women, and me. We also have a weekly zoom clinic and a live facebook Q&A every week.

Why do I have to join for four months?

Divorce is a marathon, not a sprint. I want you to get best value from The Absolute Academy which means I want to support you to understand your divorce inside out. After the first four months you can cancel anytime. We actively encourage you to leave when you’re ready – this is about getting divorce done and moving on with your life!

Is the group private?

Our Facebook Group is both private and secret – people will not be able to tell you’ve joined, and only the ladies in there will see what you post.

What if I have specific questions about my divorce that aren't covered in the resources?

I know every divorce is unique, and that’s why I hold Q&As every week to answer your individual questions. The Q&A is recorded so you can watch the replay if you can’t attend live. So every week there’s an opportunity to benefit from my professional expertise.

“I had no idea where to begin after my husband left.  To be honest, at first, I did nothing. Then I heard about Emma’s website for women going through a separation. I read it from start to finish then immediately signed up. 

Emma has been so supportive throughout my separation. She has helped me find the confidence to begin divorce proceedings without the need for a solicitor and therefore has saved me a lot of money. Not only that, she helped me to realise that it was ok, in fact, it was vital, to wait till I was ready, till I was capable of dealing with everything clearly, not emotionally. To get to that point was understandably difficult but Emma guided me through, helping me to deal with the emotional side fully so I was prepared to begin my divorce. 

I feel confident and informed in a way I didn’t think was possible without spending thousands of pounds and, even though I’m only at the start of my journey, through Emma, and the other woman I’ve met on this journey, I feel strong and knowledgeable and positive about my future. Thank you Emma x”

- Rhona -

Join The Absolute Academy, Today!

Only £225/month

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