Fully revised and updated for 2022 and no-fault divorce becoming law in England & Wales, this book is the ultimate guide to getting you divorce-ready.

Emma Heptonstall, recovering lawyer, family mediator and host of The Six-Minute Divorce Podcast is back with the 3rd edition of her Amazon best seller How To Be A Lady Who Leaves The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce-Ready.

Fully revised and updated for 2022 and no-fault divorce becoming law in England & Wales, this book is the ultimate guide to getting you divorce-ready.

ORDER NOW BY 4th JANUARY 2023

and receive access to:

HOW TO BE A LADY WHO LEAVES – GETTING STARTED’ 60 MINUTE WEBINAR

Hosted by Emma on 9th January 2023 at 8pm (GMT)

Praise for How To Be A Lady Who Leaves

I bought this as a present for a friend going through a separation after a recommendation.She said it is brilliant, she felt it has helped her deal with the split and get some confidence back too. She has gone back over parts of it when having a bad day and can’t recommend it enough👍

Mrs J Bostock

5 Star Amazon Review

Wow, there is seriously nothing out there that compares to this book. It has a mixture of legal, practical, case studies and informative material and the author knows exactly how to be sensitive when she needs to be. One of if not the best book out there that can help you in this difficult decision making process. It’s like having your best friend by your side with a box of tissues, a glass of rosé, giving you a pep talk with your favourite chocs with the legal parts to back her up. A must-have if you’re contemplating leaving, highly recommend!

L Williams

5 Star Amazon Review

Extremely well written with lots of practical advice which can help save you a fortune. Is currently my bible while going through the upheaval and stress of a divorce. Would highly recommend! 

Andrea

5 Star Amazon Review

Are you feeling lost, overwhelmed and confused about divorce? Do you feel that divorce is the next step but you feel nervous, scared and lack confidence to move forward?  Are you worried about the costs and feel out of control?

It’s time to step into the role of CEO and take charge of your divorce with confidence and clarity, enabling you to stop procrastinating and move forward to the life you deserve. 

Drawing on her experience as a lawyer, mediator and coach and having worked with hundreds of ladies just like you, Emma’s book How To Be A Lady Who Leaves The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce-Ready provides a readily accessible companion designed to be read from both cover to cover and dipped in and out of as necessary.

From the decision to divorce and leaving your marriage all the way through to life post-divorce, this book will show you how to:

  • Know whether leaving your marriage is the right option for you (and what to do if leaving now isn’t right for you)
  • Recognise domestic abuse in all its forms and how to seek support and keep yourself safe
  • Understand the divorce process in England & Wales
  • Prepare for financial remedy and understand how to work out what a settlement might look like for you
  • Tell your children about your divorce and how to support them in the changes that come with divorce
  • Begin to navigate life as a newly-divorced woman and move forward
It’s easy to blame your marriage for your unhappiness, but are you unhappy because of your marriage or is your marriage unhappy because of you?  Knowing the difference will stop you from ending a marriage that can be saved when you’re able to work on yourself so that you bring more of your true self to the marriage.
When you don’t understand the divorce and financial remedy process, everything feels scary and expensive. You don’t know what to think or believe. When you understand the process you gain clarity and confidence to make steps forward on your own terms.
Become the CEO of your divorce making smarter decisions, planning for the future and putting boundaries in place that support your future life.
How To Be A Lady Who Leaves -The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce-Ready will empower you to make decisions that support both you and your children in your future lives. 

Educating yourself and taking charge of your divorce isn’t aggressive, it’s smart. You see if you don’t lead your divorce, there’s every chance that your spouse will take control and lead you. 

By committing to being the CEO of your divorce, you take responsibility for yourself and your children. You begin from the place of being an active participant rather than a place of subservience and waiting to see what your spouse will ‘give’ you. Stepping up re-inforces your sense of worthiness ensuring that you do not feel compelled to settle for less than you deserve, skills that will remain with you as you navigate life as a newly-divorced woman.

When you buy direct from Emma you’ll receive an extra gift in the post by way of a thank you. 
When you buy direct from Emma you’ll receive an extra gift in the post by way of a thank you. 

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